I often find myself  in the midst of discussions about work, relationships, moving, change, and midlife. I have to stop for a second. Are we really still in midlife or did we pass through it while working? Are we now post-midlife?  NPR had an essay on surviving midlife. It was called: “8 Ways You Can Survive – and Thrive In – Midlife.”  It was written by Barbara Bradley Hagerty, a former NPR writer and author of Life Reimagined.*  I got some clues from this superb essay and podcast. 1.) Be a a rookie at something. Why?  Try new things  and if you fail that’s okay. You can be a “rookie”…